I joined this community not because I have low self asteem about my looks, but that I do know I'm not the picture of beauty that Hollywood pushes on people. :P I want to be supportive here of anyone that thinks they're ugly, cuz your not! :P And that guy that you liked that turned out to be shallow? Just be happy knowing that he'll get a STD from his beautiful busted wife someday because she's gonna be as shallow as him as soon as he has grey hairs and crows feet she's gonna be sleeping with the mail man. :P
Freshman year of High School I used to hang out at the nerd corner where it was all smart nerdy guys that played Dungeons and Dragons. I was only one of two girls that hung out with them. I totally crushed on this boy named Chris. He had a big roman nose, mousy brown hair, and beautiful blue eyes behind his coke bottle glasses. A lot of people don't find that desciption attractive but it wasn't his looks but his personality I thought I liked. He was funny, and I thought it was cute how he got all nervous when I would talk about the paranormal. :3
Homecoming came around, so in the morning in front of his friends at the nerd table, I asked him out. :3 His friends were like "WOOHOO! Go Chris!" and I remember one, who was a senior saying "Dude, Chris! I've never been asked out, You have to say yes!"
He told me he would tell me after Consumer Ed. class, a class we had together. I, in my naivity thought that since this class was after lunch, that maybe during his lunch break he would go out get me flowers or candy and properly accept my offer.
After that class, when only the teacher was in the room, he told me. "No,-" and then he nervously stammered the worst Freudian slip I have ever heard (I don't think he meant to say it but it was what he was thinking) "I don't find you sexually attrative." WTF?!?!?! I was at a lost for words so I just said "Uh. sure." and he went on his way nervously shaking because he realized he just said something stupid. The Con Ed. teacher asked if I was okay and I said yep. I like him for his personality, and that was a side of his personlity I'm glad I now know about now instead of after some dating. When I talked to Chris's friend Steve he confessed Chris only liked girls with the "Barbie Figure."
Grrrrrr! About 5 years later, the funny thing is, I saw Chris at my college, he went there too! And when he saw me in the hall, he got this scared look, and went in the oppisite direction! I still had one of this friend's e-mails and asked him what was up with Chris? He told me I was the only girl that has ever been interested in him, and since then, he has not had a girlfriend. From what it sounded, he regreted turning me down for that date so many years ago. After crossing paths many times in the hall I finally stopped to mutter something at him. To this day I don't know if he heard me, but he sure walked faster. *lol* "Don't be so nervous, I don't find you personality attrative anymore." HA! Bastard.
Anyways, people, don't consider yourself ugly because you don't have a boyfriend yet. Thats the worst thing you can do. You don't pick up a guy because they came over to talk to you because your face is pretty, you pick up a guy because you go to them and talk to them, and find out if they like the same stuff you do. Its about personality not looks. Also, the more worst thing you can do is turn someone down because they're ugly. We can always be picky about personality, but we can't be picky about looks. I don't care if they guy has one eyeball melting down his face like the Toxic Advenger, if he understands I'm childlike that doesn't mean I'm childish, and that I plan to become a cartoon show writer, and he is not a lazy bum with a life directive, and can make me laugh, I'm gonna date him. Gosh Darn It!
Okay, enough ranting from me, here's a picture:
I also have a dead community at
If the person that runs here wants to become sister communities we can try to undead each other. Woo!