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New-ness... [04 Apr 2006|11:17am]

Hello. My name is Grue, well we'll just say my name is Grue anyhow. I'm 21 and a senior art student in college.

I've always been an ugly girl and it always bothered me untill now. I've just learned to accept the fact that I'm ugly and I'll never be soft and feminime and pretty. For some reason I feel better now. I never knew I was an ugly girl till I moved back to my homestate in the 3rd grade and people suddnely called me fat all the time (in retrospect, I wasn't...). Added with all my fam telling me 'Oh I started losing weight at your age! Oh have you lost weight? You'll look a lot better skinny', and this was in 4th grade.

In high school, this guy kept telling me he was gonna beat my pretty. So pretty my mama would cry with happiness...

But that was a long time ago and I've begun exploring the concept of self-image within my work at school.

But I'm glad I found an ugly girl community...I guess I don't feel TOO alone.

I'd post a pic, but meh, it's not important.
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umm... Hi? [17 Jul 2005|06:05am]

[ mood | weird ]

Hey there... i see no one has posted in forever...

i guess... I should post??

well lemme know whats up...

Talk to yall later!


Think You're Ugly?

[11 May 2005|08:25pm]

Well this is my first entry in this community. Okay well I guess I'll start off by saying my name is Devon. I'm 15. I'm over weight and less than pretty. hah.

I guess like all this self-hating crap started in elementary school. I wanted nothing more than to be popular. I've always been over weight but I never really thought anything of it until I got into the 5th grade. I never knew what to do to become "popular". So I asked this girl if I could be popular. Her response was

"No, you're too ugly to be popular."

Ever since then, I've hated myself. Everything about myself. I honestly don't think thta ther is one thing I like about myself. I've had people tell me I'm beautiful and stuff but that is because they have all been my boyfriends. And it's an obligation. And Idk... I always compare myself to my best friend and I can't even hold a candle to her. She tells me I'm beautiful, but again, it's an obligation.

For about 3 years I was a "cutter", which is one thing I truely hate about myself: all the scars. I think that isprobably my most hated thing. It was my stupidity and I guess I have to live with that. And I've tried stuff to make them go away, but they just won't leave me alone. hah...

I would put a picture on here, but I'm too lazy to go to photobucket. Hah... So I'll put one on later. I'm glad I joined this community...
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[10 Apr 2005|09:26pm]

Hi, everyone. My name is Marie. I'm fifteen.

Why do you hate yourself?

It's hard to put a finger on. I just...it's the feeling as though you are stuck somewhere and you can't get out. My body is a cage. People judge me on it constantly, and there's no escaping it. Well death, of course. But what's the point in that? I don't want to be non exsistent, I want to be someone different! I want to know what my life would be like had I not been born of the same parents, if my genectics were different.
I hate myself because I've tried to rage a war on destiny and change myself, but it's too damn hard. Since I can't win, I hate myself.

What lengths would you go to in order to love yourself more?

I don't know...not plastic surgery, I'm too scared...there's really nothing I can do about it. Since most of my hatred is based on the claims of others, it would be impossible to stop it without changing their opinions or changing myself to not care about their opinions and to ignore the little voice inside of me that has been trained for many years in the art of self-deprecation.

What do you hate about yourself?

I hate the way my face is so round and chubby, how my hair is so curly and out of control. I hate the fact that when I was younger I packed on so much muscle, probably 15-20 pounds of it. It sounds preposterous, I know, but I did weight training for about two years. And all the muscle is still there.

I don't like how I can be such a bitch sometimes, and yet, I can't stand it when I don't stand up for myself. I hate the way I'm so indesicive, that It seems like I'm pouting when I don't get my way. I hate the way that I cry when ever I get angry or treated unfairly. I just can't stop it.

I hate the way my nose is snubbed. I hate that It's so easy for me to get swept up in the tide of life and trouble. I hate the way my calves and ankles are so thick, that my feet are so big while I am so short. I hate that it's so fucking hard for me to lose weight.

Ok, enough for now. And this is the picture of me, taken about five minutes ago with my cheap-ass digi cam.
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[03 Jan 2005|04:30pm]

hi there everyone! Well, since everyone seems to have their picture posted up and I can't seem to put mine up...I'll give you guys a lil more backround about myself. Well, my name is Rochelle. I am 15 years old. I have tons of beautiful friends and I love them to death. I am about 5 8' ish and I have medium long hair and brown eyes. About my build....hmmm well , still haven't decided what exactly my build is. SOme people say I'm skinny, but I say not at all. I guess I've just been extremely self coonscious about myself since middle skool. I have such low self esteem tht I don't even like to take pictures. I only take pictures when I'm forced to by my parents or other people. Thats a lil bit of why I don't wanna post my picture up and also my scanner is broken. Sometimes I wished that I would look or feel pretty for once. The only thing I really like about myself is that I can learn instruments real quick and actually sound good. I guess I'm funny cause my friends always seem to laugh at my jokes. I put alot of pressure on myself, but I don't know why. Maybe its the media maybe its just me. But yeh, thats me in a paragraph.
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Hello ^_^ [02 Jan 2005|11:23am]

[ mood | determined ]

I joined this community not because I have low self asteem about my looks, but that I do know I'm not the picture of beauty that Hollywood pushes on people. :P I want to be supportive here of anyone that thinks they're ugly, cuz your not! :P And that guy that you liked that turned out to be shallow? Just be happy knowing that he'll get a STD from his beautiful busted wife someday because she's gonna be as shallow as him as soon as he has grey hairs and crows feet she's gonna be sleeping with the mail man. :P

Freshman year of High School I used to hang out at the nerd corner where it was all smart nerdy guys that played Dungeons and Dragons. I was only one of two girls that hung out with them. I totally crushed on this boy named Chris. He had a big roman nose, mousy brown hair, and beautiful blue eyes behind his coke bottle glasses. A lot of people don't find that desciption attractive but it wasn't his looks but his personality I thought I liked. He was funny, and I thought it was cute how he got all nervous when I would talk about the paranormal. :3

Homecoming came around, so in the morning in front of his friends at the nerd table, I asked him out. :3 His friends were like "WOOHOO! Go Chris!" and I remember one, who was a senior saying "Dude, Chris! I've never been asked out, You have to say yes!"

He told me he would tell me after Consumer Ed. class, a class we had together. I, in my naivity thought that since this class was after lunch, that maybe during his lunch break he would go out get me flowers or candy and properly accept my offer.

After that class, when only the teacher was in the room, he told me. "No,-" and then he nervously stammered the worst Freudian slip I have ever heard (I don't think he meant to say it but it was what he was thinking) "I don't find you sexually attrative." WTF?!?!?! I was at a lost for words so I just said "Uh. sure." and he went on his way nervously shaking because he realized he just said something stupid. The Con Ed. teacher asked if I was okay and I said yep. I like him for his personality, and that was a side of his personlity I'm glad I now know about now instead of after some dating. When I talked to Chris's friend Steve he confessed Chris only liked girls with the "Barbie Figure."

Grrrrrr! About 5 years later, the funny thing is, I saw Chris at my college, he went there too! And when he saw me in the hall, he got this scared look, and went in the oppisite direction! I still had one of this friend's e-mails and asked him what was up with Chris? He told me I was the only girl that has ever been interested in him, and since then, he has not had a girlfriend. From what it sounded, he regreted turning me down for that date so many years ago. After crossing paths many times in the hall I finally stopped to mutter something at him. To this day I don't know if he heard me, but he sure walked faster. *lol* "Don't be so nervous, I don't find you personality attrative anymore." HA! Bastard.

Anyways, people, don't consider yourself ugly because you don't have a boyfriend yet. Thats the worst thing you can do. You don't pick up a guy because they came over to talk to you because your face is pretty, you pick up a guy because you go to them and talk to them, and find out if they like the same stuff you do. Its about personality not looks. Also, the more worst thing you can do is turn someone down because they're ugly. We can always be picky about personality, but we can't be picky about looks. I don't care if they guy has one eyeball melting down his face like the Toxic Advenger, if he understands I'm childlike that doesn't mean I'm childish, and that I plan to become a cartoon show writer, and he is not a lazy bum with a life directive, and can make me laugh, I'm gonna date him. Gosh Darn It!

Okay, enough ranting from me, here's a picture:

I also have a dead community at
If the person that runs here wants to become sister communities we can try to undead each other. Woo!

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Hello [28 Dec 2004|10:10am]

Hello there. I love carebears and the 80's.

I consider myself ugly because I was told for many years from my own friends that I was and that I was also told I was retarded. I know they joked around with me calling me those names, but it still got to me and now I have a pretty low self esteem. My friends have always been pretty. I'm always the one that can never get a bf, but my friends around me always seem to have a line of guys wanting them. I really don't like the way I look. I'm as boring as a slice of white bread. I don't wanna give you a long list why my look is so boring, so I guess I'll spare you. My friends always have the prettiest eyes, the prettiest hair, and very skinny. I don't have friends that are ugly. They also have great personalities. So my friends are both pretty and funny and smart. Kinda makes me jealous of them. So yeh, thats me.
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Oh, pretty girls like me all right... [29 Nov 2004|11:53pm]

[ mood | amused ]

~First post! My apologies for lurking for two weeks...

I'm Caitin. Pretty much the usual drill for me: high-school student, read weird, out-of-the way authors, have a crush on WB Yeats (who only loved pretty women but only associated with intelligent ones) and a thing for Jeremy Irons, play the flute, love all things Anglo/Irish. Bully for me, eh?


I for one am worse than ugly: I'm PLAIN. At least ugly girls are remarkable, interesting, etc., etc. I'm simply drab: long curly brown hair, bizarre yellowy-green eyes, too short, too-big boobs, a voice that sounds like I smoke and drink single-malt whiskey with breakfast. Both sexes pass me by unless they know me personally, and my female friends are always (only!) happy to see me because it means that YES! THEY can be the pretty one(s) for an hour or so.

I'm an object, a pick-me-up, a way to make other people feel better about themselves. Plastic surgery would almost be selfish on my part: think of all the self-images that would suffer as a result of my being bearable to look at.

So...Bonjour tout le monde! Je suis La Quelconque!


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[02 Sep 2004|09:00pm]

"We accept the love we think we deserve."
We only accept the love we think we deserve.  How obvious is this yet not recognizable?  When you hear this and think about it. . .it is so obvious yet just in ordinary thought patterns it isn't something you would think about.  I just don't understand how people can let people continiously hurt them and yet they still feel they love this person because they think they can do no better.  Especially in the case of abuse when a guy will hit a girl and the girl appologizes. . .That just makes me think how much I never want to be that way.  I don't want to stop at something. . .I want to keep moving until I can't move anymore then move farther. 
"Happy is what happens when all your dreams come true"
Considering people never stop dreaming that means the possibilities for happiness would be endless right?  That is always the way to look at it.  There is always the possibility for happiness and good its just where you look to find it.

Anyway if you can guess what books these 2 quotes from I'll give you a cookie. <3

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I'm a hypocrite? [26 Aug 2004|04:16pm]

[ mood | calm ]


It's odd, how I tell people not to feel bad about themselves, yet I feel such hatred towards my reflection. It's puzzling how I can see the beauty in others and not me.

I know why I say cruel things to myself. Because of things that were told to me. They rebounded and became who I am.
I know why I hate my face. Because I think it's an absolutely ugly hideous blob.

It's weird, how I can hate myself, and love everyone else at the same time.


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[25 Aug 2004|04:13pm]


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[24 Aug 2004|08:40pm]


hi. well im samantha and im 15 years old. i think im ugly and i hate myself. i hate everything about me my body my face. god im fucking ugly. well ya theres my intro. here are some pix sorry if they are big i havnt gotten around to making them smaller cause im a "lazyass". and well hi everyone!


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[23 Aug 2004|05:19pm]

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[15 Aug 2004|08:39pm]

I figured since everyone else was posting their pictures I shall post one of me.  Yup
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Hello. [13 Aug 2004|11:44pm]

[ mood | creative ]

I just wanted to introduce myself a little.

Why do you hate yourself? I don't so much, actually. There are moments where I wish I was hot like some people are, but I feel much different than I look. So I try as much as possible not to pity myself.

What lengths would you go to in order to love yourself more? There are times where I put myself down infront of others to make them laugh. I wish I didn't, but it's a habit. I could maybe work on my outward appearance, instead of just wearing tshirts and jeans everyday. I just like looking invisible.

What do you hate about yourself?
I don't like the way I dress, my nose, or my voice. I wish that I was just a little bit less wierd looking so people wouldn't judge me by my appearance straight off. I'm afraid of being in large groups because I'm almost always left out. I wish people would stop thinking I'm a lesbian. I don't care what they think, but I wish they would stop believing lies.

A little more about me...

Age: 16
Grade: 11th
What I like: Playing guitar, funny crap, randomness, Buffy, doodling (look at my lj for art I've done)
What I don't like: Close-minded idiots who judge people out of jealousy. I just can't stand it when people hate cheerleaders because they're pretty, or hate gays because they're homophobic.

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[13 Aug 2004|08:04pm]

I have a friend (Who shall remain nameless) who always makes me feel bad about how I look. . . I already feel ugly . . . but your best friend telling you you're ugly hurts.

Especially when you depend on them. :\
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wtf. [08 Aug 2004|05:32pm]
[ mood | nauseated ]

So my "friend" Steve told me i should go on extream makeover today. How nice, lifes lovely.

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[06 Aug 2004|01:06pm]

It sucks not being considered pretty.
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Pictures [02 Aug 2004|05:23pm]
[ mood | sick ]

sheild your eyes.
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